Wednesday, September 12, 2012

How to learn a foreign language in 2012

Growing up in an English speaking family I often took for granted the opportunities to learn a foreign language. In school I took the standard Spanish and French classes. Unlike some, I only came away with the ability to chirp a few common phrases such as: Hello! Welcome! How are you? How do I say? Goodbye and most importantly, Where is the bathroom?  I became linguistically encaged much like a parrot Bacaw` Hola, Bienvenidos, Como Esta? Como se dice? Adios and Donde esta el bano? Bacaw!!!


 Throughout the years I have often regretted not taking the time to learn how to conversate in a foreign language. As the world shrinks and people of all cultures merge....I think of how nice it would be to communicate freely with others. It certainly would improve my ability to get or remain gainfully employed...right?

  But working, having children and being downright busy in general, dampened the hope of me ever doing so..or at least that is what I thought. And then I remembered something that I grew up being taught. That life itself is one of the best schools, or as someone said..life is the best university.

So how could I employ that logic and put it to good use in my endeavor to learn a foreign language?

Actually its pretty simple!

Do you want to learn a foreign language without going to school? With a busy schedule? With kids running around you? At work? In school? Online? Here are a few suggestions.

  The first involves other people. I prefer this method, especially if you like myself...are a bit shy. Purchase either a writing tablet or a small notebook 5x7 even a small pocket notebook...you know the one that has the spiralling on top and you can stick a small pen through the top? Or you could just use your cell phone. All of them have a notes feature.

  My foreign language of choice is Spanish. For the sake of example, I'll refer to only it. If you are like me and have relatives that speak Spanish. Go to them! At each visit have them teach you at least one phrase that you commonly use. For example when I visit my Grandmother she always offers me a cup of tea and cookies. So I would ask her to teach me how to ask her for a cup of tea and cookies in Spanish. Write it down, including the proper way to respond. Also write the way that she offers the tea and cookies.  And from that point on WE MUST speak ONLY in Spanish when it comes to tea and cookies. Practice at home. Offer tea and cookies to the kids in Spanish and have them respond ONLY in Spanish.

  When out and about, why not ask a person who speaks a foreign language how to say something? At a museum? Ask how to say "that is a beautiful piece of art work." At a restaurant? Ask how to order your favorite dish in only Spanish. Write it down....write English translation under it.

At the mall, doctors office, school, work..etc. You may be surprised how many people you come across that speak the language you desire.

Remember the key is to write it down, even if you cannot spell it....just write it how it sounds and under it put the English translation. If the cashier speaks Spanish go to her line and ask her to teach you ONE phrase every time she sees you.
How much do I owe you?
Here is your change.
How is your day going?
What is on sale? etc....

The point is that wherever you are..the world is your classroom. Meet people, ask questions. But do not bombard them. Ask only 1 question at a time. This will keep you from becoming overwhelmed and neither will they. They won't run every time they see you. Instead you will both look forward to your interactions.

Use what you are learning. Repeat, Repeat, Repeat. From that point on if you know how to say it in the Foreign Language...do it.! Even when speaking to an English speaking individual repeat the Spanish phrase mentally. You are making a mental imprint.

If you cannot speak to people or do not have any foreign speaking family members. Write down some of the things you say in English througout the day and Google it. The best way to learn is by hearing so look for videos. Mispronunciation can often change what you are trying to say entirely. You dont want to offend someone.


Why it Works
Think about it!! How old are you? Let's say for the sake of example you are 30, and for the last ten years you constantly added not just words, but phrases to your vocabulary. What would you know by now? So in the next 10 years what can you accomplish? Let's just say you learn two simple phrases a week.......in 10 years that's 1040 additional phrases...not words but actual interactions. Since the human brain often works as a decoder, you will in time begin to gain a more rapid understanding of the overall language...so 1040 phrases becomes a conservative number. It could be thousands of phrases in those years.

Many people learn differently. For those who have busy lifestyles, it doesn't have to mean the end of learning. Some of us really do not have the time to add more to our plate. We do not want to sacrifice the quality of our families. By letting the world around you serve as a teacher, the possibilities are endless. So take a few seconds a week to learn something new. And you just might:
Tome un paseo por la vida y convertirse en un viajero en el camino.
 

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

5 Tips to help your children behave in Public


The Misbehaving Child

You ever see.....I mean HEAR the child? You know the one that's 14 gazillion aisles over and you can hear them whining and screaming. "But I waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaant itttttttttt! waaaaah!!" Then they say "I hate you mommy, you are a meanie and I don't like you anyway!" You look around because you just had a flashback to your childhood. For a split second you see your life flash before your eyes, because you envisioned saying that to your parent...and instinctively you duck! You know that you would have been in instant trouble...you know what I mean!

But you tune back in, I mean you can't help it, the whine is getting closer and closer. And you hear the Mom read from the Nowadays Mom script, "now I expect you to behave, your not being a good little boy, your the best sweetie but I'm going to put your toy back." And as the scream reaches a fever pitch, HERE follows the most famous Nowadays Mom line EVER.......drum roll!! "You are SO going to be in time out when you get home, mister!" AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAh what is wrong with her?

You walk away just in time, to see the other I'masecondfromlosingmymind Mom who is at her wits end. She is gritting her teeth, has a stern look on her face. This as her loud children touch everything in sight, hanging off her basket. She then says in a low deep (slightly demented tone), "Johnny you come back here, Rah-hight N-OWah!" (pronouncing each syllable slowly and purposely)..as he runs up and down the aisles, ignoring his mothers brewing rage,"HaWhyyy woooont yoooou Buh-hee-have?"Poooof, smoke just came out of her ears! She is on the verge of going postal...or leaving the kids in the basket and exiting the store alone. You think, "Woah lady take it down a notch!" But It's like they all read the same book, and are repeating the same lines.

And realistically many of us Mom's have been in either of these women shoes. We feel like we have no control over our kids and they do not listen.


And last but certainly not least is the I'getit Mom, that walks by. She is calm her children are chattering quietly, well groomed, behaving, they listen as though they each play a part in a symphony. And if your either of the first two Mom's you wonder, How she does it? They must just be good kids. Chances are, that it was, not just by chance. So, HOWDOES she do it? And how can you get there too?


What are some things you can do to help your children behave in a store?

Boundries, not everyone likes them, but everyone needs them. And these start when your child is very young. In infancy! Some things are Non-negotiable in life. Wearing a seat belt, you require it, because it makes them safe. Teaching them Good Behavior and Self-Control are just as important as that seat belt.


1. Plan ahead

Teach them how you expect them to behave in the store. BEFORE you shop! It takes a few times, but they WILL get it if you are CONSISTENT! If you want them to stay in the basket. Make them stay in the basket. As they get older, teach them that it is a privilege to walk with you, a responsibility. I used to say "If you cannot touch me, you are too far." And if one does not listen, have an immediate consequence. For a smaller child, that means you get in the basket for the rest of the trip. An older child, you hold on to the basket for the rest of the trip.

Tip- Be consistent.



2. Fair Warning

Fits! Screaming Tantrums, kicking legs, Saying mean things to you! Do Not allow it!!!!! Period. Remember the Seat belt..non-negotiabe. But teaching them that starts at home.

Before you go into the store remind them. While you are still calm and in the car! MOMS of the WORLD!!! It's okay to say with authority, "You better NOT.....pause....... under any circumstances.....pause....go into this store.....pause...... and scream, pause...kick, pause..... whine, or shout......longest pause. Do you understand? (Do not let them see you laugh, as you remember each purposeful pause, in your head) lol!



If they DO pitch a fit. Follow up with an immediate consequence...Here is the real dinger STICK WITH IT! So if you put back the toy, say "We are putting this back because you broke the rule, you did not listen, you threw a fit. And I warned you. Remember the conversation we had in the car. Now if you continue, you will be in trouble at home as well. AND I will not buy it the next time either." And if they do not stop, remind them the next time. "Well the last time you threw a fit, and remember I told you that if you did not stop that I would NOT buy it the next time either"......then here comes the balance. "Lets see if you can behave today, and we will see about the next time, OK?"


But if they did stop the fit last time, tell them "last time you had to leave your toy, today lets see how you do." Ask, "what is my rule about fits in the store?" Have them repeat it back to you, "no fits, no screaming, whining, kicking or shouting." Soon enough they will remember, and a quick reminder will be all it takes.


Its OK to give a warning when you see the whining or impatience beginning, just say "Ah ah, you sound like your starting too whine" or whatever the behavior is, "now would be the time to stop." NIP IT IN THE BUD! Before it really starts to get out of hand.

Tip- Tell them what you expect before hand. NIP BAD BEHAVIOR IN THE BUD


3. Feed them first

A hungry child can become frustrated easily. Of course there are times when you are rushing and they are hungry. This doesn't mean a free for all...."you didn't feed me so I can act crazyyyyyy!" You can say "I know your hungry, we will eat as soon as we are done. But I still expect you to behave."

Tip-Go after Breakfast or Lunch when they are least hungry or tired.

4. Fill in the blanks- Teach them what you expect of them.


Running up and down the aisles, Talking loud or all at the same time, Playing in Clothing displays, Hanging off the baskets, Touching Store Items, Asking, Can we get it? All of these can drive a mom cuckoo catchoo! But it seems like all kids have done one or all of these at some time or another. Once again here is where Mom comes in. Are you on the cellphone? Distracted? Tired? PMS'ing ing ing? Impatient? Maintaining order will help in these times.

Do they know what you expect? It's not always enough to tell a child not to do something. Its like leaving a blank, and you have to fill it in. So tell them what they can do. Preferably BEFORE hand. Like... "I expect you to walk next to me, but I am going to have you help me shop?"" Ok Johnny, We need apples, these are on sale, pick out 6 nice ones without dents. I'll hold the bag. Now you 3 stand there and behave like gentle men, and Timmy you are next, ok?" Then it's Timmy's turn. "Look at this bag of grapes, see these are moldy, can you gelp me pick one that's has good grapes in it? Are you 3 still behaving? Ok, just making sure."

See your in control, they each have a role and everyone feels important, not because Mommy keeps pouring on the false fake, Your the BEST line, every 3 seconds but because they develop a sense of accomplishment. By behaving well.

Tip- Prepare them ahead of time

5. The NOT EVERYTIME reward

And now your at the end of your shopping trip (IT'S TAKEN A FEW VISITS TO GET HERE) at the register...your boys have behaved like little aces, so you say.."since you've done well so far, How would you like to quietly pick out one candy each for .60 or less? Ok guys, quickly and quietly." Then when you get to the car, a simple "good jobs guys," and follow up with,"we wont get candy every time, so do not expect it" (just until they do not expect it for every trip). "But I am proud of you today!"

And then stop, take a little breath...pause..... smile! Because you both did it. You were the Igetit Mom today, that other Nowadays Moms can look too!

Tip- Be balanced, good behavior doesn't get a reward every time, it's an expectation you have.


Afternoon Music Break..Violinist


Today's afternoon Music Break features Vanessa Mae and other Violinist! Check out the street performer Bryson Andres.


Toccata and Fugue in D-Minor
 
 
 
 
Bond- Shine
 
 
 
Street Performer
Bryson Andres
Edge of Glory
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Sea World Admission for Homeschoolers $6.00

Home Schooling in Southern California has it's advantages. There are many places that offer discounts to HomeSchoolers. Here are a few that we have found. Please feel free to comment on deals that you are aware of.

Sea World-http://seaworldparks.com/en/seaworld-sandiego/Educational-Programs/Home-School

Available Dates
2012
Oct. 10
Nov. 7

2013
Jan. 23
Feb. 6
Mar. 6
Apr. 17
May 1

Prices
Instructional Field Trip program
9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.
$6 per person.
Free for Passport members and Fun Card members.
Students, chaperones, and teachers pay the same low rate.
Full Day Instructional Field Trip program
Make the most of your time as you combine animals, shows, rides and education for a one-of-a-kind day at SeaWorld.
$30 fee per person for San Diego County School program participants. (Non-San Diego County Schools receive a reduced admission fee of $40 per person for an all-day field trip that includes shows, rides and attractions.)
Free for Passport members and Fun Card members.
Enhance your learning experience by adding on an In-Depth Tour.
We require at least one adult for every 10 students. The maximum ratio for Home Schools is one adult per one student. Extra adults and siblings not participating in the field trip with the school pay 20% off the regular SeaWorld admission price.
Education rates are available only by advance reservation and apply only to school groups of 10 or more paying participants. Prices are subject to change. For reservations or information please call (800) 25-SHAMU Press 4.




 

Home School Days - Official LEGOLAND California Site

Click to register or view prices and FAQ.

Home School Days - Official LEGOLAND California Site

Thought of the Day, THINK


Before you say it out loud
or tell someone else
THINK

is it?

Thoughful?
Helpful?
Inpiring?
Neccesary?
K ind?

 

 

Monday, September 3, 2012

Thought of the Day

Always
Be
Kinder
Than
You
Feel

Afternoon Music Break...Michael Buble


After a long day I needed an afternoon music break. Decided to visit an old favorite! Michael Buble. Such a pretty song to sing along too. Hope your day is going well!
 
 
You don't know me..Michael Buble
 
 
 
Reminds me of my little sis...she loved this song...Home by Michael Buble  
Haven't met you yet..Michael Buble  
Everything  
And finally.......The way you look tonight Hope you enjoyed a Michael Buble break! (: Did I get your favorite? Feel free to comment or add suggested songs.
 
 
 

Caramel Nacho Cheese Popcorn


Popcorn

I love popcorn. It is a timeless snack. This version turns the classic Caramel Popcorn into something Salty Sweet and and O' Soooo delicious! And of course Gluten free. Make this in a big batch separate into gallon bags and enjoy.. A great twist for gifting to a friend. With this recipe and your imagination you can make a few variations for your family.

Ingredients

4 cups fresh popped corn
1 cup packed brown sugar
1/2 cup butter or margarine
1/2 cup light corn syrup
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
Gluten Free Nacho Cheese Powder (Kernel Seasonings)
 

DIRECTIONS:

Pop Popcorn according to directions.
Preheat Oven to 250 degrees
In a heavy saucepan melt butter, add sugar, butter and corn syrup. Stir over medium heat until boiling. Continue boiling 5 min. Keep and eye out, do not scorch, stir carefully with wooden spoon. Remove from heat; add vanilla and baking soda. Pour over popcorn, stir to coat well.

Spread onto a non-stick cookie sheet bake for 1 hr. I prefer lightly coated parchment paper..it helps reduce sticking.
Mix popcorn several times.
Remove from oven, sprinkle nacho cheese powder generously onto popcorn...cool, break apart and store in tightly covered container.